Loving someone is not an EASY task, especially if that someone expects a lot from you. If you love someone, you shouldn’t tell them to do this and that. You should love them for who they are and not with what they have. Do not find fault and count flaws, just love with all your heart, and at the end of the day, you’ll find out that what you’re sharing is nothing compared to what is given to you.
What are we defending? Why be afraid of getting hurt? Are you not satisfied every time he/ she turn around and give you a smile? Isn’t it the most rewarding stage in life when you finally meet the person who can stay awake and watch you as you sleep at night? Are you not challenged with all the hardships you’ve been through when you were fighting for what you felt?
Loving and caring is being selfless, even if you have CHEATED before, because of that strong feeling called LOVE. You will refuse every temptation that comes your way… but then again… maybe NOT!
I know that cheating could be thrilling, but I don’t thinks it’s supposed to be thrilling if we hurt the one we love. But you know, it gets confusing sometimes.
LOVE and ACCEPTANCE. If you love someone who CHEATS, then does it mean that you accept being cheated on? Then another person reason why people cheat is because we allow it. HUH?! Where in the world did you get that huh?! CHEATING is not a big offense anymore so it became easy to just forgive and forget about it… and still there is LOVE. Why would we give up the whole relationship if it’s the person whom you truly love you’re fighting for? I know, I know… I did… for once in my life I fought for it... but unfortunately, I lost. The lesson: LOVE AND ACCEPTANCE. Funny but true.
With all these heartaches I’ve been through, I came up with these five simple rules to be happy…
- free your heart from hatred.
- free your mind from worries.
- live simply.
- give more
- expect less.
I’ve been in a very depressing stage lately. I don’t tell it to my friends or to the very close people. I want to overcome it just by myself. I cried but I learned.
I’m so happy, fulfilled and complete.
